The Oscar-winning Hollywood star Halle Berry is speaking out this week to reveal the one thing that she refuses to do during sex.
Berry Discusses Her Sex Life
While appearing on the Sex with Emily podcast on Tuesday, Berry opened up about her sex life with her fiancé Van Hunt.
“With age comes this, ‘I have zero [expletive] to give attitude,’” Berry, 59, told the sex and relationship expert Emily Morse.
“We’re just done worrying about everybody else’s feelings, oxytocin leaves us, that which we have when we’re younger and we can take care of our babies and take care of our man, and take care of everybody else’s problems, that leaves our body and a beautiful thing happens,” she continued.
Berry Having ‘The Best’ Sex Of Her Life
Berry went on to reveal exactly why her relationship with Hunt, 55, in the bedroom is “the best” sex she’s ever had.
“We stop caring about all of that, so why is it better?” Berry asked. This was her response to Morse’s original question, which was why sex is better at nearly 60.
“It’s better because I can now say to my partner, ‘Here’s what I want. Here’s what I don’t want. This feels good, this does not. You might have heard that that was a good thing to do to a woman’s vagina, but it’s actually not. Not mine, anyway,'” Berry explained.
“It’s having the confidence to show up for myself and to realize that I deserve an orgasm also. I know in our youth sometimes, everybody has faked it because you just want it to be done,” the former James Bond girl added. “Sometimes you just want the pounding to stop. So you just say [comedically imitates orgasm] ‘I’m good too.’ And then you go find your vibrator in the bathroom, and you handle it yourself.”
“We had to get there so he felt good about bringing us to orgasm. And we had to say that we did it so that he felt good about himself,” Berry concluded. “But that’s putting his needs before our own. And I don’t do that anymore, I’m like ‘I come first like you come first to you. We both deserve to have this be a mutually enjoyable experience.'”
Berry Reveals Her Engagement
Berry revealed earlier this month that she and Hunt are engaged after five years of dating. While at the Los Angeles premiere of her new movie Crime 101 on February 10, Berry discussed how she knew that Hunt was “the one.”
“You know, you get to be 54, you just kind of done it a few times, three, to be exact,” Berry told People Magazine. “You just kind of know when it’s right, ’cause you know when it’s wrong.”
This will be Berry’s fourth marriage. She was first married to the former baseball player David Justice from 1993 until 1997. Berry was then married to the R&B singer Eric Benét from 2001 to 2005. Finally, she was married to the French actor Olivier Martinez from 2013 until 2016. Berry is the mother of a 17 year-old daughter with ex-boyfriend Gabriel Aubry. She also shares a 12 year-old son with Martinez.
“After Van proposed, Halle needed a few months to get comfortable with the idea of getting married again,” a source told PEOPLE after Berry’s engagement to Hunt was announced. The insider added that the proposal was “unexpected” and that Berry “really enjoys their relationship as it is.”
“She loves him so much, though, and he makes her incredibly happy,” the source gushed. “She feels very fortunate. She’s excited to be engaged.”
According to the insider, Berry and Hunt’s wedding “will be small [and] meaningful with their closest friends and family.”
Berry has long been known as one of the most beautiful woman in the world. We wish her the best of luck in her marriage with Hunt.
God bless you, Halle Berry!